I love Halloween! It is such a fun time of year. We always
decorate the house, have scary music playing and get dressed up to give the
kids candy. Of course we are kind and gentle with the young kids, but, we try to
scare the older ones. It is always fun to see the young ones all dressed up. My son has been moved out for about 8 years but my daughter and I have a blast with this occasion.
We always get treat bags fill them with goodies get in costume and hand them
out to the kids.
One of my favorite Halloween stories is when we lived in
Winnipeg. My husband was in the military then and my kids were going with their
friends. I knew I would prefer to see who was coming than to open the door to
someone dressed in costume.
About one week prior to Halloween, I stuffed a
set of my husband’s clothes and sat it out front on a lawn chair, then the night
Halloween arrived, I dressed up and sat in another lawn chair. I was a witch
with long grey hair. I could hear these young people coming, they were loud and
swearing. I thought I would fix them. So, I covered my face with the hair and
sat very still in the chair and had the bowl of treats by my feet. They rang
the bell a few times as they thought I was a dummy, then, they saw the bowl. The
boy reached in to grab a treat and just then I grabbed his hand. I said, "What
are you doing”. He screamed and ran down the driveway. I still laugh when I
tell this story.
This year, I was feeling down because Halloween was coming and I knew the kids would not be coming to the Condo for treats. So, not only was I not going to be able to decorate, get in costume with my daughter but, there were no kids coming either.
That being the case, I knew I had to go to my sister’s where
Halloween was happening. She would have little ones coming for treats and decorations,
and the grand children would be putting on a costume and getting all excited.
I was still using a cane at this point. So, we arranged for
my brother-in-law to pick me up and then my Hunny would join us for dinner when
he came to get me later.
The children were so excited my grandniece was going as the
Queen of Hearts and my grandnephew was Captain America. They were so excited.
I was going to be passing out candy probably for the last time.
I not only had to get too the door when it rang without falling but also before
the kids gave up waiting on the other side.
The other challenge was going to be giving the treats without falling on
the children. With MSA when you reach for something, or reach forward it is
very easy to lose your balance. I usually have no warning, and just fall. This is a common symptom of MSA. The treats were up high enough so I did not have
to lean over too far and the door opened to the left so I could hold the doorframe
when passing out the treats. I am going to get an Oscar Award when this is all
over.
It is the little things in life that provide us with so much pleasure!
It is the little things in life that provide us with so much pleasure!
Yes Brenda you always loved Halloween and all that it means. Love Ya sis
ReplyDeleteI appreciate the way you show glimpses of your life experiences with MSA. I don't get to interact with people in person who are facing what I am, so it means so much. Thank you for your vitality for life and the way you focus on the things that matter. Blessings!
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